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  Overthinking in Relationships: How It Destroys Love and Trust Sometimes, silence screams louder than words. “She hasn’t replied for 15 minutes. Did I say something wrong? Maybe she’s losing interest in me. Maybe… someone else is texting her.” This is what overthinking looks like. A mental loop. A war with imaginary versions of someone you love. In relationships, overthinking is one of the silent killers. It doesn’t enter like a storm—it creeps in quietly. Like rust on metal. You don’t notice it until something breaks. And what breaks isn’t just trust—it’s also love. What Overthinking Does to Love Love is fragile. It grows in trust, in presence, in now. But overthinking? It pulls us into a world that doesn’t exist—a future we fear, a past we can’t change. Overthinking says: “They didn’t say ‘I love you’ first today. Is something wrong?” “They laughed at someone’s joke too hard.” “Why didn’t they post a photo of us?” None of the...

What a Boy Feels When He Really Loves Someone or What a Boy Feels When He Really Likes Someone I am writing this as a man , as a husband , or a lover , because what I thought is that now, however many people may say otherwise, I want to say that nowadays there is no love in the world . So I am here to spread love among all people who love someone and who are in love . Coming to the point: how a man describes a person in his heart who loves him most in his life. First of all, all men fall in love first with their mother . There is no woman in the world who can be compared to a mom . A mother is the most beautiful lady in the world for any man, and maybe women also agree with that. If you agree, be sure to comment how much you love your mom . When a man thinks about his woman’s hair , this is not just hair to him. The hair of his beloved is like a tree that gives oxygen , strength , and the will to be tough in any situation . When a man thinks about his woman’s eyes , he thinks:...